Pink related several very interesting tidbits in this chapter. Since babies can't talk we have to read their emotions through their facial expressions. Therefore, most people naturally cradle babies on their left so that they can read their face with the right hemisphere of their brain. Another interesting piece of info, people with damage to their left brain are better at reading faces and detecting liars. Their left brain doesn't interfere with the intuitive emotion sensing nature of the right brain. Yet another, sometimes when you call a company and get an automated recording if you get irritated enough the machine senses it in your voice and transfers the call to a real person. It's somewhat embarrassing to admit, but I know this to be true from experience. Next time you get stuck in a endless loop of pushing buttons and holding release a few swear words, you might actually make some progress.
Though many of these tidbits are interesting Pink's overall point is that empathy is an important skill for two main reasons. 1) It is impossible to outsource or automat empathy, so it will be an important skill in the future job market. 2) When we take the time to understand the emotions of others we can be more effective in our relationships, business or personal.
I have in more recent years considered myself to be a fairly empathetic person. You had to pay for the EQ test that Pink suggests in the portfolio, so I found a free (and probably less reliable) one online. As I was taking the test I started to feel like maybe I am less empathetic than I thought, as I repeatedly responded that I avoid conflict in various situations. However, my results simply said that I have above average emotional intelligence. No number scales, or explanations, but I was pleased enough to be affirmed a little.
Early on in this chapter Pink quotes Oprah as saying, "Leadership is about empathy. It is about having the ability to relate and connect with people for the purposes of inspiring and empowering their lives." (160). I was struck by this quote because I thought you could very easily replace the word leadership with the word teaching. Wanting to connect with others and make a difference in their lives is a big part of the reason that I decided to become a teacher. This will come up more in the meaning section. I think we need to show students through modeling that empathy is an important quality. I think that we can develop empathy in our students through our curriculum by showing the art of other cultures, showing art that deals with issues of social justice, and creating a supportive, constructive environment for critiques.
Meaning:
Speaking of Empathy, Pink's introductory story about Viktor Frankl was very moving. In his book Man's Search for Meaning, Frankl says that man's fundamental drive is the pursuit of meaning. I think that this has become more clear to me in recent years. Before moving to Columbia to pursue a Masters in Education I had a good job that paid well enough. My job helped others. I made IV mixtures for premature babies. But I didn't feel connected to others. I worked in a glass box and rarely saw those I helped. Pink says that a sense of calling, that is work done for its own sake, is poised to overtake material rewards as the number one reason for working. The highest form of happiness, he says, is not just a calling, but finding meaning. I knew that I wanted to love my job and I thought that having a influential connection to children was what I would love. The search for meaning in our career is certainly important in our line of work and will affect the type of teachers that we are.
Meaning is also important in our students lives. One of the ways that students develop a sense of self is through finding personal meaning in their lives. We can help them uncover personal meaning in their lives by guiding them, through the exploration of big ideas (Ping, Eisner... and Unrath and Gude;). Though they certainly won't find the same level of deep personal meaning in every idea explored, those that stick with them will become a part of them and help them define the meaning in their lives.
As Pink says at the end of the chapter, the purpose is the journey itself. This is important for us to remember, and though they will probably think it cliche, it is important to remind our studnets of this as well. They tend to be in a big hurry to grow up, but they would certainly be better served to enjoy the journey along the way.







